Responding to Another Blog
I found an article just a minute ago written by WiseFawn. I don't know who she is or where in the hell she's coming from, but I think I could argue all day with her. To quote her article on the two types of men:
There are the ones that want a "mother" and the ones that want a "daughter". I know that there are about two percent of men that actually want a partner, but they are pretty rare to find. The ones that want a "daughter" are much more rigid and set in their ways. There are never times when it equals out. But I've found that the ones that want a "mother" can have moments of the relationship being more equal.
Now, let me tell you, if you are a female that is competeing for a male that wants a "mother", the real "mother" will win. There are certain types of women that have a natural ability to rule men. They make them jump when they say jump. These are the men that leave their single friends at the bar with geers of "whipped" being yelled. These are the men that make up a very large part of society. They are a bit more tolerable though, then the ones that want the "daughter" Those guys can be a little scary!
So, if you are a single female, looking for a partner....good luck! If you are one of the "mothers" and we all know what I mean, you seem to rule the world! And if you are a "daughter" please remember there are shelters and services to help.The main thing is to not try to be something you are not to satisfy these guy's needs.There might be classes out their on how to be a mother, but there aren't any on how to be a daughter.
My primary complaint here is that being a "daughter" isn't really that bad. Daughter, to her, seems to be interchangable with stupid, weak, sex slave, subordinate. This position is one of pity. "Please remember that they are shelters and services to help."
Believe me, there is no one who holds more power over a man than his daughter. I've seen grown men on the verge of tears because of a superficial laceration on their baby girl's forehead. These men could cut their own foot off and never notice. This is why women take the children to the doctor; daddy would never hold his little girl down for a shot. I dated a guy who was my father's age once, and while he wasn't like my father, he was still a father. And he spoiled me... bad. He would lay me back and do everything wonderful that I could imagine, without even having to ask him for it. He didn't say, "Sit still and behave, whether you like it or not." He said, "Let me take care of you; lay back and enjoy the ride."
It was much more subtle than Freud's Electra complex; this was not a way of showing that I secretly wanted to be with my own father instead. The father mentality is simply too great for a man to escape once he has a child of his own. I'm a feminist, a tomboy, and stubborn as hell, and I liked being the "daughter," damn it. I don't need a shelter or service to help me.